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Don't misunderstand where I'm coming from--it's not about getting a gift, it's about asking a friend to be real. Flaking for two years in a row is really about being inconsiderate.

Yes.
I hate when people get away with this kind of stuff because everyone else is so nice, tiptoeing around them.
Nothing wrong with asking a friend to be real--or be gone.
 
I have a group of friends from all parts of the country who keep in touch via an email loop. Every year at Christmas, we do Secret Santa gifts. This year we delayed it with a target date of New Year's. So, I'm waiting, waiting, waiting... Finally I ask for the name of my Santa and immediately know I'm screwed. The person who drew me never sent a gift to her "giftee" last year, and also last year claimed that she never received the gift that was sent to her, though the Santa Girl had proof she mailed the package. I'm irritated, she's never been called on any of this, what do I do?

Cease that BS! Also, I have a great excercise.....Make a list of the friends in your life. Draw a circle. In that circle write all of those who are positive and enhance your life with never a dishonest moment. Outside the circle place your frinds that you are undecided rather they are worth YOUR time! If those relationships on the ouside cannnot be improved or placed in the circle afte a few months...... WEED THEM OUT! They will bring you down.
 
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