Need some input/advice/wisdom

[Miss Kitty]

what she said.

and if she tries to give you any lip, tell her to STFU.

Brilliant...and add a Bite Me to the mix.

and then say, "KMA!"
This group of your friends is, quite obviously, more confrontational than your St. Louis group. But we HAVE to be more funn, right?

You know that's right! :clap_1:

 

[Mango]

Mail her a lump of $hit with a note that says "Thanks, I already got $hit from you. How nice of you to send more, but I have enough"

 

[pgurney]

Mail her a really nice note and thank her for the Ipod she gave you. You'll get the message across and she just won't know what to do with that. It might get kind of humorous amongst the group.

 

[dbuck]

Mail her a really nice note and thank her for the Ipod she gave you. You'll get the message across and she just won't know what to do with that. It might get kind of humorous amongst the group.

This I like. :clap_1:

 

[steele mama]

WWSM do? Write or call her, tell her you realize she did not send a gift again this year. Explain that you were very disappointed and ask her not to put her name in next year so that someone else is not disappointed. Then you can ask her what's going on and make sure she is ok. Am I lame?
PS My avatar looks like steeleing1.

 

[Teresa]

WWSM do? Write or call her, tell her you realize she did not send a gift again this year. Explain that you were very disappointed and ask her not to put her name in next year so that someone else is not disappointed. Then you can ask her what's going on and make sure she is ok. Am I lame?
PS My avatar looks like steeleing1.

SM - you certainly make the most sense. I wouldn't have the nerve to call her though... I don't think I would be able to keep it "nice", so I just wouldn't.

I like this idea though. percy?

 

[organicmama]

Mail her a really nice note and thank her for the Ipod she gave you. You'll get the message across and she just won't know what to do with that. It might get kind of humorous amongst the group.

I vote for this one & if it does work, follow Miss Kitty's guidelines.

I can throw in a dirty diaper for Mango's suggestion, if you'd like.

 

[organicmama]

WWSM do? Write or call her, tell her you realize she did not send a gift again this year. Explain that you were very disappointed and ask her not to put her name in next year so that someone else is not disappointed. Then you can ask her what's going on and make sure she is ok. Am I lame?
PS My avatar looks like steeleing1.

No, not lame, just a wonderful, tactful woman, unlike the rest of us hellraisers!

 

[peapod1980]

WWSM do? Write or call her, tell her you realize she did not send a gift again this year. Explain that you were very disappointed and ask her not to put her name in next year so that someone else is not disappointed. Then you can ask her what's going on and make sure she is ok. Am I lame?
PS My avatar looks like steeleing1.

SM - you certainly make the most sense. I wouldn't have the nerve to call her though... I don't think I would be able to keep it "nice", so I just wouldn't.

I like this idea though. percy?

Dangit, SM, you had to go and ruin all the funn, didn't you?! You're right, this is probably the best approach--deal with the issue in a sensible way with a dose of (faux ;-)) concern. Not lame, just diplomatic.

 

[steele mama]

Dangit, SM, you had to go and ruin all the funn, didn't you?! You're right, this is probably the best approach--deal with the issue in a sensible way with a dose of (faux ;-)) concern. Not lame, just diplomatic.

Somthing just doesn't seem right about getting angry or even over a Christ-mas present. Truthfully....I probably would'nt do what I said. I would do NOTHING. I'm pretty good at ignoring even when I shouldn't.