A point about the military point of view in itself... The military is designed to make soldiers. It breaks down a person's social mentality in regards to "normal" society and turns men & women into soldiers. That is the point of the military and that is the result. It's simply & blatant socialization. This does not just happen to the soldiers but also the family, including spouses and children. Military life is not life like the rest of us know. Military personnel & their families live, breathe, eat & s*** military values. So, they truly believe what they are saying is to be 100% true. They can't help it or they wouldn't survive. Literally.
I have a great deal of my family in the Army, including the Commanding General of the Third Army, Lt. Gen. Steven Whitcomb. I love him dearly, but I also look at him and go, "D***! He's a killing machine!" And my Aunt Cathy, his wife, is going to have culture shock coming back into the "real world" after so many years of military life after he retires. (This is probably why I turned into a liberal & somewhat of a hippie. Only my late Grandmother & I were liberals in the family. We learned to keep our mouths shut.)
The only reason that I am saying all of this is that each of you is simply doing this

when you are trying to reason with CiaoBella or anyone else who justifies their views from a military point of view.
BTW, there is actually a class at UGA called The Sociology of the Military. It was a very depressing semester.