JohnRudy and husband, you should not be worrying and losing sleep over this. You also should not feel guilty in the least. You should be enjoying your life. There are so many other things in our lives that make us worry. I for one, chose not too.
We are not using one penny from our retirement for college. We know that our retirement has to come first, college tuition 2nd. We're just worrying like most parents do. And as for you, if you choose not to worry, well hey, that's o.k.
Anyway, Miss Kitty, we are hoping for scholarships but that's something you don't find out about until the very last minute upon acceptance. In the meantime, there's the hope for flawless auditions. And then after it's all said and done, it will never be a great paying job in the end.
Now maybe if he was an engineer like his dad, you know, a practical, normal profession, then maybe he could eventually pay back a college loan. But I can't see saddling him with a $100k student loan. And that's what most liberal arts colleges run these days.
Also, I'm not feeling guilty over this. It has been lots of fun. Scary, eye opening, exciting, and definitely fun.
(Sorry KDW. Maybe I've hijacked your thread??)
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