So much sadness

[seacrestkristi]

Hang in there LadyDeBubba! You just made me thank my lucky stars i only have a burn on my face, and a little bit of swollen eyes, and am spozed to stay out of the sun which I love! Big whoop! I'm just lucky to be alive. (or that my contacts didn't get melted to my eyeballs ) So sorry about your sad news. Cry it out then try to keep on smilin', Lady D. Sometimes I can convince myself just by smilin' a big stupid , curious a$$ smile. Think I'll go try it out now.:roll:

 

[InletBchDweller]

Hang in there girl, things do get better, I promise....;-)

 

[Lady D]

Hang in there girl, things do get better, I promise....;-)

My DIL isn't handling her mother's death very well. I did speak with her today. Tried saying some kind words. I am not very good at wording things. She is in total shock. I could tell by her voice she is numb with disbelief. She said it happened so fast. Then she started telling me that the last words she and her mother shared were very angry words. That broke my heart. The minister that married my son and DIL was there at the hospital when they pronounced her dead. I do not know whether my son and DIL were at the hospital when she was pronounced dead or whether they got the phone call after she passed. I am going to try and find out from my son when I can out of earshot of his father-in-law and my DIL. They were all sitting looking at pictures of her today. I think that it obviously was too early for that to occur for them. But I cannot be the one to tell them that. I am sure they realized it was too early.

 

[Paula]

This is all so sad, LadyD. You are correct that we need to mend things with people and let them know we love them. We also need to remember that we love people assuming the long-term and, in the long-term, bad words happen in relationships. Ideally, your DIL knows in her heart that they would have made amends over time. So very sad for 13 year old, too.

 

[ShallowsNole]

IBD, you do know we are still thinking of you too...