Douglas, I certainly agree that weddings are a thing of joy--no argument there.
However, there are certain things even tolerant Americans should not be tolerant of.
I feel sure you'd agree we shouldn't be tolerant of slavery or sexism or racism.
Slavery, sexism & racism are based on the premise that some people are born better than others.
Royal-ism is based on that same assumption.
"Royalty" is equivalent to "classism" or "caste-ism." Do you honestly think we should be tolerant of an "ism" based on such an elite idea?
I'm not saying we should break off diplomatic relations w/ UK or declare war on them.
I'm just saying we should be negative about royalism & all its lavish ceremonies.